If you're still reading this, then you probably still need ideas. If your friends didn't help, and if looking around you didn't help, maybe mainstream is a good idea. There's plenty in that idea bank! You can always add your own spin to it. What are mainstream favourites? Seasons. Things like a Spring theme, or a Fall theme. My sister's wedding was an Ocean themed wedding; and since then, it's become quite a popular choice. I've also heard of many Sunset themed weddings. How do you put your own spin on these popular favourites? Instead of having a spring theme, why not pick a certain flower that you love? Or, instead of Ocean theme, pick a certain beach you like, and hold the wedding there! Still no ideas? Well, if all else fails, there's always wedding magazines. Wedding magazines always have fresh, new, and unique ideas. They're all over the big book stores, and sometimes you can find them in second-hand stores. Who wants to pay full price for a magazine when you can get another one for 1/2 the price? Keep those in mind when you're doing decor shopping for your wedding as well. Second hand stores can have just what you're looking for, and are usually a lot less then the brand new stuff.
If you're fresh out of ideas still, try thinking of colors, and what they remind you of. Red reminds me of cinnamon, of spices, and things like that. Herbs! Orange reminds me of fire. Campfires, bonfires, hula dancing. Hawaii! Green reminds me of mint. Mint is in breath mints, in sweets, and cooking - candy! Think of any color you like, and think of what it reminds you of. You can try this with smells, too! Bread reminds me of bakeries, flowers remind me of gardens. Sooner or later you're bound to stumble across something you like.