i keep avoiding it. i can't bring myself to register on theknot.com. the whole checklist thing. can't i not (haha) have a 6-foot endless-scroll checklist? every time i get to the register-so-you-can-see-inside-our-secret-knotty-world page, i think: here is the part where they sell my name and all i get for the next year is wedding spam. (hum. i get wedding spam already, am not sure why this would bother me, but... it's personal, you know?)