I'll have to work on a lead-up to the wedding timeline (I have one, but I want to fiddle with it a bit so it more accurately depicts what actually happened). So, for now, here is our wedding day timeline (including stuff other people were doing and stuff we (P and me) were doing). I've given the timeline that we thought we'd go by and made a note if that thing actually ended up happening at a later time.
An Illustrated Wedding Day Timeline
8:00 am - Breakfast at the B&B (Wedding party plus P & me)
9:30 am Meet at house to continue set up -Menfolk, plus my parents and some assorted family
9:30 am Women at B&B for hair, getting ready, finishing up flowers w/photographer (we had our hair person come to us, which was just as cheap as us going there because she didn't have to pay for her stall rental).
9:30 am Meet at house to continue set up -Menfolk, plus my parents and some assorted family
9:30 am Women at B&B for hair, getting ready, finishing up flowers w/photographer (we had our hair person come to us, which was just as cheap as us going there because she didn't have to pay for her stall rental).
11:00 am Prep salads & apps - Mom and assorted friends and family at the house12:00 pm Men get ready for pictures at the house - Groomsmen plus P
1:o0 pm Meet for pictures at the B&B (Wedding party plus us) 
3:30 pm Back to house for family pictures - Us, wedding party, family
4:15 pm Set up apps & drinks in backyard and water in front - Designated friend helpers
4:30 pm People arrive, greet people - Everyone
4:15 pm Set up apps & drinks in backyard and water in front - Designated friend helpers
4:30 pm People arrive, greet people - Everyone
5:00 pm Ceremony starts - We based this on when we thought it would start cooling down.
6:00 pm Drinks, apps, and fun
6:45 pm Buffet starts (Actually ended up starting around 7:15 pm)
7:30 pm Cut pie (Dinner actually ended up taking longer than we thought so this actually happened around 8:30)
7:30 pm Dancing music (Actually ended up starting a bit after 8:30--immediately after cake/pie).
We wrapped up just around midnight, though most folks were gone by then and it was mostly the people were were spending the night there after about eleven or so.